Cheating In The Next Room

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Cheating

He Cheated On & With Me

I have a story to tell. This is about a woman name Anitha who is in love with her high school boy friend Robert.  Keeping a relationship intact while in high school and then through college is not an easy Job for them. My boy friend and  did just that, it was not easy but we survive through it. I worked hard to become a Graphic Designer and my boy friend wanted to be an IT Tech.

A year before we finish college I became pregnant. We were in different colleges miles and miles away but still much in love. Our marriage came soon after we graduate about 5 months after I had my baby. A handsome boy weighting 7 lbs 6.5 ounces and 21 length long. This was the best time of my life and we are excited to start our life together.

We have now been marry for over 2 years, have 2 kids ages 3 and 1, we have a wonderful family. My husband and I met in college, we were high school sweet hearts. We wanted to wait until we got out of college to get marry. We knew that we wanted to spent the rest of our life together.Life comes with surprises and disappointments that we sometimes do not see coming.

I was in the happiest moment of my life, married now for 10 years when I notice a change in Andrew.  He worked later and later at the studio, we didn’t make love as much as we use too and we argued more. I knew something had change and I was determined to find out why.

I got off early from work one day and stopped by the studio thinking Andrew and I can go for dinner. I did not expect to see what I saw. At first I thought I was seeing things, my eyes were playing tricks on me. Oh how real it was. My husband, my friends my first and only love was was cheating on me. We separated after about 5 months of finding that Andrew was cheating on me. I thought this was the end of my life as I saw it. Anitha and Andrew had been apart for 3 years. They did not speak much but he was allowed to see the kids from time to time. At this point Andrew decided he wanted a divorce. He wanted to spend more time with Adrienne. After a few years later Andrew married Adrienne. Do you know that saying, “What goes around comes around.”

It been 4 years since Anitha been around Andrew and even had a thought of him. For some reason Anitha thoughts got the best of her and she decided that she would not let another woman take the only man of my life. Anitha wonder what was wrong with her. Why did this man mean the world to her, should she let him take control of her life like this. How can we put another life before our own. What is it that makes us feel as though one person means so much to us we can’t live without them. Anitha starting meeting and going place with Andrew just to be around him. She could not understand why she had to be with him. Well it has been 6 months since they have been apart and she just wanted to see him. The urge was too much for her, she just had to see him.

Well they met and talk and before long they were going out together, going to the show, having dinner talking about the kids, go to the kids school on parent day and so on. They were enjoying each other company like they did when they were in college and away from each other during school. It was like they were on break from College and having fun spending time with each other.

One day after going out with Andrew,  Anitha offer him the chance to come over to their house to see the kids. Andrew jumped at the chance to see his kids.   You can see from his expression that he had more than that on his mind. He knew that Anitha still loved him and he was going to take advantage of this. Well it happen, Andrew was allow to visit the kids at Anitha house.

The kids loved their dad and they had a ball, it was if he had never left. They kids had school they next day and soon had to go to bed, they felt alseep right away. While Andrew was saying good night to the kids  Anitha made a drink for Andrew and herself. You know what they say, drinking can lead to things and it did. Andrew took advantage of the situation and he leaned over to kiss Anitha. She resisted at first but she still loved him, he is the only man she has ever been with and he knew that. Love is splendid thing. Andrew made love to Anitha like he never did before and that fact the he was married to another woman did not bother her. She thought to herself, he was my husband first, the only man I have every been with until she came into his life. Why should i care about her, I am doing to her what she did to me. I don’t know if I want to live with him again but being with him is all I ask for now.

You can tell from Anitha face that she was happy, it did not matter that this was only temporary all that matter is she got to make love once again to the man she felt in love with  a long time ago and the man she has ever been with. Well it was getting late and Andrew must leave. Anitha had to control herself, she did not want him to leave but she knew that it would be for the best.

Anitha did not hear from Andrew for the next 4 days. She thought that he had used her and now was not going to see her again. This was not the case Andrew was playing a mine game with Anitha. He knew that if he did not call her for a few days, if would give her a chance to think about what they had did. He knew she would not be able to get him out of her mind after making love to her. Anitha was excited to her from Andrew, she said to him, “i didn’t think I would her from you. Andrew replied, Anitha I was busy and didn’t know what to think after we had make love. You know I am still in love with you and had to think things over, Anitha, I understand. Andrew, how are the kids doing, they are fine, they miss you and can’t stop talking about the night they spent with you.

This is kind of funny how Anitha and Andrew got back togheher. Althought he decided to marry Adriennd the shoe it now on the other foot. Anitha is now the other woman in Andrew’s life. Her words were, “I am not going to feel guilty about what I am doing. He was my husband first and I don’t care about Adrienne. You can see from Anitha face that she is happier than she have been in years. She knows that Andrew is married and she don’t care. Her time with Andrew is the most important thing to her.

Anitha and Andrew spends 3 to 4 times a day toghether if you get what I mean. Her kids are older and she has not kept this from them. They do not understand but who are they to question their mom. If is so funny but Anitha and Andrew have been spending the last 3 or 4 nights together for the last 2 years. She said her friends ask how can she be doing this, sleeping with the man that cheated on her. She did not care what her friends thought, this is the love of her life and she don’t need anyone’ approval. Anitha and Andrew is not in a  relationship and sees each other 3 or more times a week.

It is really funny how this happen. A man cheats on his wife with another woman, leave her for that woman then marry her,  and is now cheating on his second wife with with his first wife.

Just My Thought

P. S. This is based on a true story. When my associated told me about her and her ex, I could not believe it. She said this is the only man she has ever been with.

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Living Life, One Day At A time

by Mz. Pawality

What does it really mean to us. Is it changing or are we changing? We try to teach our kids right from wrong but do we as parent really know what that means. Be honest with yourself, what is the one thing that sends you spiring out of control? What makes you hate another person?  How can we voice our opinion civilize and not let hate take over us/

There is a lot of things I like and dislike but the way I handle it is what’s important. How can you try to teach your child something you as an adult can’t control yet. I don’t always understand people no matter what the race is. I know that I am not liked by everyone but that’s OK, its just how the world is now a days. People look at you one way or another because of what another person done just because you are the same race as they are.

Have you ever just sit back and watched a person, hear there story and wonder how that could be. Well, read my story and give comments. Be careful with how you respond, you just may hurt someone feeling or do you really care.

I grew up in the projects back in the 60s and 70s. I saw shooting, killings, fights, and things some people have only see on TV. I am a grown woman and now that I think about how my mother died when I was just 14 years old, let me change that, my mother was murder when i was just 14 years old.

We lived in a high-rise building on the 10th floor. I always wonder how come high-rises in the ghetto is called projects but high-rises in the upper neighborhoods are called by their names. Anyway my mom was out on the porch one day looking over the porch rails. For the most part, we have an awesome view of downtown Chicago. We could see the fireworks from Wriggle field at night. Once the fireworks started we would go outside on the porch to see the excitement. Sorry I keep wondering off but you know how that is, you are working on one thing when another one comes up.

As I said my mother was looking out over the porch when all of a sudden something hit her in the head. She had a large cut on her head and had to be rush to the hospital. We did not think much of it, we assume she would get stitches and return home. At that time my dad was not living with us, as some men do, he left my mom for another woman. Well my mom had to stay in the hospital for a couple of days. She had bleeding on the brain, don’t know the technical term they used. Days and Days went by and still our mother was not home. At this time it was about 7 of us living with my mom. My grandmother stay about 5 blocks from us and my aunt-t stayed about 30 miles or less at the time. Well one day I felt asleep on the couch when my mom’s male friend got a call. I can hear him on the phone while I was lying there, don’t know if he knew I was there or just thought I was sleeping. I hear him mention something about my mom passing away, tear came running down my eyes, at that time I was only about 14 years old. Can you image being 14 and loosing your mom. That was very devastating to me. My life will change at that moment. So as I say, should I be judge because I was raise in the projects, high-rises, or what ever others names they wants to call them. Well now there are 14 kids ranging in ages 12 years of age to about 25. My other brothers and sisters were not living with us at the time, I had another brother in jail and one younger sister living down the street with my grandmother. You know that child that always gets pick to raised by her granny.

Now it time to get ready for the funeral. we have lots of support from family, friends, and neighbors. This is the worst day of my life, my heart is broken and  I do not know what to do. I know how it feels to loose someone close to you. We never did find the person that hit my mom in here head but I will like to say that he/she is the cause of her death.

It was a struggle but me and my sisters and brothers are all OK now. I am grown and my life is all set. I live in the south suburbs, a Retail Administrative Assistant at a large family own business and is living my life to the fullest.

Just My Thoughts

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